tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1206232748309738354.post1891849505324695690..comments2012-12-09T00:10:59.984-08:00Comments on An Ordinary Girl: Mama Bearemilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15916718534119493011noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1206232748309738354.post-11110779321431441462012-12-09T00:10:59.984-08:002012-12-09T00:10:59.984-08:00A few years ago I realized I could not be more th...A few years ago I realized I could not be more than a friend to your ex-husband for a couple reasons. 1) I knew you; I cared about you. We were visiting teaching companions; we were friends. 2) I could never be a step-mom. To me, if a mom is in the picture, she is the one to be there. The step-mom should never cross the lines requested, and should try to create a relationship with the mom as to better serve the children. Things happen when children are under the watch of different people, and not everything can be controlled. But what ultimately matters is that there is respect and trust and knowledge that what is best is done.<br /><br />I know you, and I know over time, things will get a little easier. It will not change, but just be easier. You will always and forever be the mom who they will desire over any one else!Angelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10787850901657051822noreply@blogger.com